The Lovers - 6 -

The Lovers - 6 -

Unions, Sex, Relationships, Values, Beliefs, Marriage

Disharmony, Break ups, Imbalance, Temptation

In the card itself you see the angel above the couple blessing the union. The couples are happy and seem to be bringing two worlds together, as depicted in the two different styles of lighting behind the man and woman. The business, more industrious side that usually represents the hard working man in a traditional role and the tree behind the woman showing her cultivating, or nurturing, side. There is a balance between them and the workload they each must now take on. The angel appears to be coming from a smoke, which is representative of air; communication. Even in this normally dark and dreary set of Tarot, you can sense a warmth coming from the couple and you notice how the sun seems to shine down on only them. The card itself represents everything to do with love, marriage, or dating. It's the expression of that bond that forms between two people strengthening each other and encouraging that growth of confidence and safety together. They can overcome anything hand in hand. It is also the sexual feelings and acts that come with being together and feeling comfortable in your skin while sharing each other in the most intimate of moments. This could also deal with just one person finding themselves, their values and wants in life, and what your personal beliefs are. Find You and be You no matter who that person is. Self love is the first step to finding true love. There is also a deeper meaning to this card. It could indicate something seriously life altering (much the way a marriage does) and you must choose the right path. However, take special care to examine all possibilities, as the easy way may not be the best and the roughest path may prove to be far more of an adventure into your true self. There may also be something that feels like a tough decision, but it'[s definitely a blessing in disguise, so take a deep breath and go for it. This is because your personal values (that you may still be developing) are being challenged in some way. 

Reversed

There is a chance that a love is turning into more of a obsession. Take a step back and reevaluate what this person is to you. Do you really love them? Are they making you a better person? Are they aligning with your personal beliefs and life goals? If not, then walk away. You could also be finding yourself as an object of the obsession or even be dealing with a partner more possessive than loving. If this is the case, then break it off. It can get ugly if you don't, and it may even be ugly when you do, but it's for the best. In this way, it could also mean that one person is simply more invested in the relationship than the other, which will always lead to disappointment in the end. There's no need to force something that isn't there. Maybe there is some kind of an affair already happening or the temptation of one. Beware of this. The temptation can also be for many other issues in your life, like taking the low road, compromising your self and values, a grass is greener on the side type of problem... Look to the surrounding cards before jumping to conclusions on this particular aspect. There may also be a case of not wanting to deal with responsibility, like children, or simply owning up to your actions. It can also mean an inner battle or even disharmony, dissatisfaction, or an unbalance in your relationship. Work on the communication, talk it out, even if it's something you feel you are doing to yourself. You're in this together, so relying on and helping each other is a fundamental part of the relationship.

Planet

Mercury

Element

Air

Herbs

Dragon's Blood, ginseng

Crystals

Agate

Timing

1-30 days

Special  Card Combinations to Look for:

The Hierophant - a deeper, more spiritual connection, a holy union

The Devil - An obsession or being shackled and tied down, an affair

The Tower - Separation

Hermit - Loneliness or lack of connection 

Empress - Sexual fulfillment and pleasure

Three of Swords - Rejection

Two of Cups - Union or marriage

Five of Cups - Poor relationship or loss of love

Nine of Cups - Sexual pleasure

Ten of Cups - family, bonding

Ten of Pentacles - dealing with family and relations (parents, siblings, children)

Journey through all of the Cards here

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